How to choose the perfect vibrator

“What should I look for in a vibrator?”

“Do I need more than one?!”

“How does the shape make a difference?”

Here at SheSpot, we see these questions all the time (among many others!). Whilst vibrators can be the perfect way to explore your pleasure, with the huge range of shapes, sizes and power settings (!) on the market, it can be tricky knowing where to start, and crucially, how to expand your collection (yes - we strongly endorse owning multiple toys!).

We’ve teamed up with luxury sex toy brand Je Joue to give you some expert answers to your questions. Read on for their vibrator 101….

Je Joue’s top tips for selecting your vibrator

With so many vibrators to choose from, it can be a little overwhelming for beginners and experienced users alike.

Start by asking yourself a series of questions to help narrow down the search:

• Do you enjoy internal or external stimulation, or both?

• Are you going to be using this solo or with a partner (ANY toy can be a couples toy remember…)

• Are you going to want to use the toy in a bath or shower? Is the toy fully waterproof?

• What material are you looking for? Silicone, stainless steel, glass? (ALWAYS check that any toy you purchase is body safe, you’d be surprised how many contain phthalates and other carcinogenic materials!!)

• How many different speeds/patterns are you looking for?

• Is the toy rechargeable? (Battery operated toys are less powerful, more “buzzy” and are worse for the environment!)

• Reviews! Since everyone has a different experience with vibrators, scoping out the reviews of how it worked out for other users can go a long way in deciding if something is right for you.

The Je Joue range: something for everyone!

Sexual wellness is something that Je Joue, as a luxury, sex-positive brand, knows all about.

Their super-soft sex toys have been designed in collaboration with gynaecologists and midwives specifically to target the pleasure points of the female anatomy. Beautifully crafted, you’ll want to place them proudly on your nightstand. Plus, the toys are sustainable and vegan, ethically manufactured and made with medical-grade silicone that has a seamless finish (because seams on vibrators can irritate the skin).

But which one should you try first?! Below we have broken down the toys by type and experience level. Remember, the main thing is to have fun and enjoy!

Bullets

Rabbits

The rabbit vibrator known for introducing women a double-orgasm, when a clitoral and vaginal or G-spot orgasm occur at the same time.

Rabbit vibrators are designed to give more intense sensations than the more traditional dildo or clitoral stimulator.

Dual stimulation vibrators are fantastic for solo play and for hitting more than one pleasure point at once!

Pebbles

Pebble vibrators are non-penetrative vibes.

They are a more rounded shaped vibe allowing for precise control over where you want it.

It is a great toy for beginners and for couples, as this shape provides greater surface area and more overall stimulation between bodies!

G-Spot vibrators

Classic vibes

Classic vibrators are traditionally phallic in shape and can be used internally and externally.

The Je Joue collection of ‘classic vibes’ avoids the phallic shape and instead focuses on design-led stylish curves.

Straight vibrators are not able to stimulate the G-spot as easily - we recommend opting for a toy that follows the natural curves of your body.

Je Joue vibrators for beginners

Top pick for first timers - Je Joue Mimi Clitoral Vibrator, £65 and Mimi Soft Clitoral Vibrator, £70

If you’re new to sex toys, the Mimi and the Mimi Soft are the ideal place to start.

With its ergonomic design (which wouldn’t look out of place sitting in any beauty cupboard), cup the Mimi in the palm of your hand and let your body relax into its rumbly pleasure, or pinpoint it if you like direct clitoral stimulation.

For those who prefer an extra delicate touch, opt for the Mimi Soft.

Top pick for external clitoral stimulation: Je Joue Rabbit Bullet Vibrator, £45

A staple of any bedside table since its iconic appearance in Sex and the City over two decades ago, Je Joue’s take on the Rabbit is a more modern, chic version.

Its ears are designed to hug the clitoris (or nipples or perineum), resulting in intense, body-shaking orgasms.

Top pick for partner play:  Je Joue Classic Bullet Vibrator, £45

If you’re just starting to experiment with toys in the bedroom, Je Joue’s Classic Bullet comes with a finger sleeve that you or your partner can slip on for a more hands-free experience!

The ideal toy for getting in the mood…

For Intermediates

Top pick for G-spot exploration: Je Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator, £45

While clitoral stimulation is the most common way for women to reach orgasm, those looking for a deeper climax should explore the G-spot.

The curved tip of our G-Spot bullet allows access to those all-important internal nerve endings.

For Advanced

Top pick for G-spot experts: Je Joue Uma G-Spot Vibrator, £75

So, you’ve had a few G-spot orgasms already and you want to take it up a notch?

It’s time to give Uma a whirl.

This pretty toy was awarded the title of ‘the world’s most beautiful vibrator’ by the Spark Design Awards and it's designed to fit to your body’s natural curves and deliver mind-blowing G-spot orgasms.

Top pick for blended orgasms: Je Joue G-Kii G-Spot & Clitoral Vibrator, £90