What are the biggest myths about sex toys?

SheSpot Sexologist Alice Child reveals the most common myths about sex toys. 

Let's ditch some myths about sex toys and vibrators that I hear all the time.

1. "Sex toys aren’t normal" - Says who?! Over 80% of women and people with vulvas in the USA now say they own a vibrator or a sex toy. Sex toys are a very normal, fun, healthy part of sex.
2. “I don’t need lube - I get wet enough!” In my opinion, everyone needs lube! It makes everything feel better -  not just penetration. It can be used anywhere on the body, is longer lasting, and is essential for any great genital massage. More slippery, more sensitive, more pleasurable! Warm it up for an even better experience!
3. "Sex toys are only for women" - Wrong again! Sex toys feel great on all bodies (there are so many places to explore!) and there are incredible toys made especially for men and people with penises. Everyone can enjoy sex toys - no matter your sex, gender or sexuality.
4. "Vibrators desensitise you" - Nope! Vibrators don't desensitise your nerve endings. However, just like with any erotic tool, sex position or type of stimulation, you can become more reliant on them to build arousal. So make sure you use them in addition to other types of stimulation - eg your hands! Variety is key.
5. "Only single people use sex toys" - Why!? Sex toys are great alone, but they are also amazing with a partner.
6. "Getting a vibrator means sex with my partner is bad"  - Not at all. Novelty and newness are huge aphrodisiacs, and adding new toys, fantasies, and ideas into the bedroom is a fun part of a healthy sex life. Remember, toys are part of the team (not your competition!) - don’t be threatened or intimidated!